Happy Mother's Day to Me, a Plant Mom

I really love my plant babies. I didn't know how much I would enjoy being a plant mom. In the past, I've basically killed every plant entrusted to my care, so this is a pretty big deal. I currently have zucchini growing out back and zinnias, hollyhock, basil, and a jalapeno plant in the kitchen. Here are 101 lessons I have learned from being a plant mom (lol, jk I'll be lucky to think of 10).

1. Sometimes I love too hard. 

For example, I picked up my teeny tiny jalapeno plant earlier this week...and dropped it. If I would have just left it in the window, it would have been fine. But now that poor little sprout is fighting for his life. I replanted him, but it kind of feels like I performed a surgery that I'm not qualified for and I don't even know if he is in a coma or not. Probably he'll be fine though, right? 

2. Motherhood  makes you proud of weird things. 

Look how proud Mom is! I didn't even write my own name on that poster!

When I Facetimed my mom today, she really wanted to show me the fridge, which is covered in my sister's awards from school. Also she wanted to show me a cute/creepy cross-stitch my sister made of the grandbabies. Me? Well, I'm really proud of my plants for not dying. KEEP IT UP.

3. It's okay to think things will go well. 

I planted 3 zucchini seeds. They have outgrown their little cup and are now thriving outside. But sometimes I don't feel super confident in my plant-growing abilities, so I put approximately 18 basil seeds in that tiny cup and now they are all growing together. I am very worried that they will choke each other out, but I'm also too nervous to try and separate them until they get a little bigger. Moral of the story: plant 1 dang seed at a time and BELIEVE it will grow.

4. A mother's love knows no limits. 

My mom once let my brother's and I have a popcorn fight in the living room. I'm 99% sure she did 99% of the cleaning up too. Mostly because I have no memory of cleaning any of it up. Sorry, Mom. My plants don't really make messes, unless I accidentally drop them. But I did risk my life for them the other day. A BIG, black, hairy, jumping spider was living in our kitchen earlier this week. We couldn't kill it (mostly due to fear, but also because it could jump away from us onto surfaces that made killing it difficult). I was terrified of the spider, but maternal instincts kicked in when I saw it head for my plants. Carine got the broom and kept the spider distracted while I performed a rescue mission and moved my plants to the other side of the room.

In case you wondered, the spider is dead now. RIP. Carine ran outside and asked a man who was walking his dog to come inside and kill it. He did. Nice guy.

5. You have to keep working it, even when you don't see results.

I planted my seeds several days later than Greta planted her's, and it was pretty hard to see her seeds sprout first. I kept watering my little dirt cups, hoping the seeds weren't duds and that I was giving them the right amount of water and sunlight. Looking back, it didn't take long to see the fruits of my labor. But at the time it felt like FOREVER and I really wasn't sure a single one of my little seeds would grow. I'll let you go ahead and figure out this life parallel for yourself.

6. Some seeds are duds.

Okay, so I don't actually know if my cactus seeds are duds or not. How long do I continue to care for that cup of dirt without results? I HAVE NO IDEA. Relationships are a lot like that. Sometimes you don't know when it's worth working through hard things and when it's better to cut your losses and get out. I took a class my sophomore year at BYU where we had to grow a mystery seed and compare it to marriage. Our grade was based on both turning in a live plant and writing a paper about what it taught you about marriage. I was definitely an over-achiever in college, so when my little sprout KEPT DYING or not sprouting at all, I was very stressed about it. Didn't this seed know my grade was on the line?? I kept having to go to my professor and ask for more seeds. He would just look at me with pity and tell me to stop dating duds. And yes, I did get marked down on my project for killing all of my seeds. Foreshadowing.

I can only think of 6 lessons. I told you we'd be lucky if we got to 10. In lieu of additional life lessons learned from plants, enjoy these pictures of me and my mama. Happy Mother's Day!

The Peaceful Potty

Every stage of life has its pros and cons. When my mom friends post pictures of their children's hands under the bathroom door, I remember how nice it is to be able to potty in peace. I try to treasure this part of my current stage in life, because I know (hope/dream/wish) that I won't always have this uninterrupted time in the bathroom. Perhaps my desire to fully appreciate this single life perk is why I am so protective of my interruption-free bathroom time.

Last week, I was using the restroom when my roommate came downstairs to find me. "Lisa?" she called.  "I'm in the bathroom," I answered. And then I heard her sit down. Technically, she wasn't interrupting my bathroom time. But now that I knew someone was waiting outside the door, I did not feel alone. Alone is definitely how I like to feel in the bathroom. Determined to outlast her (because some how me staying in the bathroom for hours would teach her to never sit outside the door and wait for me?) I decided to check all of my social media outlets. I was in there for quite some time. Every time I heard her move outside the door, my resolve solidified. If she wasn't going to leave me alone, I wasn't going to come out. My resolve faded after 20 minutes; bathrooms are kind of boring after that long. I considered taking a bath just to spite her, but I thought the coast was clear (what kind of crazy person waits for someone outside of the bathroom for 20 minutes???). The coast was not clear.

Interruptions: 1
Peaceful Potty: 0

Because I am an evolutionary genius and I know that you have to evolve to remain on top, I adjusted my strategy. Tonight I turned on the fan in the bathroom pre-peaceful potty time. Another roommate came to the door, this time wanting to discuss the latest episode of New Girl. This was obviously not the time. If she waited, away from the door, for 2 minutes, she likely could have engaged me in a riveting conversation on the topic. Alas, she opted to try to talk to me through the door and over the fan instead. Unwilling to have a yelling conversation about New Girl while sitting  on the porcelain throne, I yelled "I can't hear you over the fan!" She complained about the "stupid fan" and retreated. VICTORY!

Interruptions: 1
Peaceful Potty: 1

This post is dedicated to Mom, who never complained to me about all the times I interrupted her while she was on the toilet (although she probably did complain to Dad because he frequently told me to leave her alone so she could potty in peace). I get it now.

Off.

I woke up this morning at the usual time. I rolled out of bed and stumbled into the bathroom to wash my face. Then I sat in front of the mirror and put on my makeup. I checked the time. 7:45 AM. I lost my mind:

How is it already so late??? I woke up at the same time I always wake up...How do I usually have time to shower & do my hair?! I pulled my hair up, threw on some clothes, and went to the kitchen to grab breakfast. I'm STARVING. I'm already late, might as well make myself breakfast. I should text Gwen and tell her I'll be late to morning meeting. It's 7:55, so there is no way I'll be at work by 8:00 even if I leave right now.

I got to work around 8:15. The thing is, WORK STARTS AT 8:30. I was definitely not late; I was actually early. Has work ever started at 8:00? No. I have no explanation.

And that was the omen for how my day would go. Everything felt off all day. 

I witnessed a chicken nugget deal. It was kind of like a drug deal, except really they were just trying to get their nugget fix. It reminded me of the movie Heavyweights. Gotta do whatcha gotta do to get those nuggets.

Let's just say I am REAL excited for the weekend. Catch me not leaving my house all weekend and watching GenCon in my jammies! JK, I have breakfast plans Saturday morning & a date Saturday night so probably I'll have to put on real clothes. Lame.

Hello, 2018.

Have you ever seen the movie Age of Adaline? It's my favorite. In the movie, Adaline goes to a fancy New Year's Eve party. We were watching the movie for approximately the zillioneth time when Greta & I decided that we definitely need to attend a formal New Year's Eve party at least once in our lifetime. However, New Year's Eve (and Greta's birthday!) fell on a Sunday this year...and all the super formal parties cost SO MUCH MONEY. We ended up settling for a semi-formal New Year's Eve eve benefit event.

The event was circus themed, and aerialist dancers performed above the dance floor, with a sword & ring dancer on the stage. There was tons of food, including all-you-could-eat cotton candy in flavors like mango & tiger's blood! Waiting in line to play carnival games we heard the people behind us talking about how they  met at a millionaires workshop. We were feeling pretty high-class that night. And young. I have never been hit on by so many older gentlemen before.

We counted down to Greta's 25th birthday with a 2,000 balloon drop & Martinelli's toast.I told her we threw the whole party for her, but I don't think she's buying it.

Christmas 2017

Three things to remember about Christmas 2017:

1. Hosting Christmas

Mom, Dad, and Liv came to visit for Christmas! It was perfect. I couldn't take off a lot of time around the holidays, so they made the trek across the country to visit me this time. They stayed at my house and it was so fun to show off my grown up life. We ate at all my favorite places, went snow tubing, saw Savior of the World, attended Music & the Spoken Word, and did so many more fun things!

2. Feeling Grown Up

I decorated our house for Christmas & everyone who came over described our house as "cozy" and I think that is the best compliment EVER. I loved coming home to our tree every night, and taking it down just about broke my heart.

3. A Broken Heart & A Better Understanding of God

Christmas at House of Hope is pretty magical, and it was fun (most of the time) to get to play a major role in the Christmas efforts. I love that our women EARN Christmas for their kiddos. They do special chores and assignments to earn Christmas presents for their kids (which really provides them with a great sense of accomplishment & pride at being able to give their kids Christmas). But sometimes moms decide not to do our Christmas program. And that about killed me. 

One of my clients decided the task was too overwhelming, and decided to give up. I tried to work with her to help her see how do-able the work was. I even went to the executive director because I was so stressed that this client's kids might not get Christmas. She told me that it would be harder for me than it would be for the kids, since they wouldn't know what they were missing. I tried and tried to talk to the mom, but I couldn't change her mind.

When we were going through the donations, I saw the perfect toys for this client's children. There I was, holding everything on their wish list, knowing they wouldn't get it. MY HEART BROKE. Sitting in sacrament meeting weeks later, I realized that Heavenly Father feels the same way when I forgo blessings He is EAGER to give to me because I don't do what He asks, or because I don't ask for those blessings.

I feel SO BLESSED to have a job that helps me know God better.

Delivering presents on Christmas Eve!